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Posted in Babysitting on 18th April 2011

why do ppl judge?
i am a young mother i have a 3yr old of my own and my fiance has 3 children of his own (1 and set of twins) now i am pregnant with my second child y do ppl look with disgust when we go out together or they will even tell me”i hope u r babysitting” or “are those all yours” what does it matter if they were all mine as long as the kids are fed clothed and taken care of properly it shouldnt matter right?
all the children are ages 6 and under

Best answer(s):

Answer by Lina B
People always judge and it’s wrong. People always stare because I have a 4, 2 and a 1 yr old and we’re quite a circus when we go out. But it’s no one’s business.

Answer by momof4

my only explanation is that it’s so much more fun to bash other people than to attend to one’s own problems.

edit — i just have to add that i did once ask someone if the kids were all hers … she had about 9 or 10 kids, and i wasn’t criticizing; i was honestly in awe about how well-behaved and nice all the kids were and how calm she looked. so don’t assume it’s always an insult.

Answer by Jess;;
i’m waaay younger than you…but i’ll try and give you some advice..
the reason i think people judge is because they themself, like to get judged.
i hope that makes since.
i mean people like the attention.
they think it’s cool to step on someone else to make them feel taller.

but what YOU have to do is kill them with kindness.
then they can’t hate you.

i hope i helped?

Answer by SweetPeaMcZ
People are cruel! I come from a long line of big family’s and I love every single one of them! There’s always some to talk to if you need. Someones always got your back! Congrats on your Baby!! Your blessed to have so much unconditional love!! 🙂

Answer by Johnny’s Mommy
People stick their noses in where they don’t belong.

I wish people could just mind their own business and not judge.

Answer by CAT, the TYPO QUEEN
I hate that,too. I have 4 daughters..I always get..”Gonna try for a boy now?” WHY don’t they just ask, “Gonna have SEX again?”..SO RUDE! Just smile and walk away….they don’t need your personal input. It’s none of their business at all. God Bless..and CONGRATS on the new baby!! 🙂

Answer by Brittany
Because people feel that they always have to judge when it comes to parenting. I sum it up as your kids, your choice.
If they are all being fed, clothed, and loved on, there is nothing wrong with it! Some people just need to mind their own business. Don’t let it get to you!

Answer by reed
People will always judge, because it makes them feel better about their own problems. It’s a sign of insecurity and jealousy, and most the time is unneccessary. I get judgemental looks and comments all the time when I go out. I’m twenty, looking after my three-year-old son alone. People always look at me like I’m a disgrace, I get comments on my age and situation I’m in. My girlfriend got pregnant at 16 and I was too young and stupid to sort myself out, she left us two weeks after birth. You can imagine how people react once they find out my story. The reason I don’t let people get to me by judging me is simple; I pride myself on the fact that I’m a good father to my son, despite my age and situation. Even though I was young and messed up at the time, I wouldn’t change a thing about what happened because I love Nathan dearly. The people judging you know nothing about you, they just see you and jump to conclusions. So what if you did have a big family? It would just show you’re strong enough as a person and a mother to cope with that, and I think the fact that you are with a man with three children of his own – and looking after your own child, shows just that. Be proud of the fact that you were able to adapt to your fiance and his own family, it shows how much of a good person you are. The majority of the people judging you would not cope with your situation. You sound like a lovely mother, and your fiance and his children are incredibly lucky that you are strong enough to look after not only your own child but someone else’s. For that, you do have my respect.

Answer by ladyscientist28
everyone judges others regarding something.

Some of the very women who are condemning judging others on THIS question have given some very judgmental answers to abortion questions.

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