HomeChild Supportwhat do u think about “CHILD SUPPORT”AND GUYS NOT WANTING TO PAY ?
Posted in Child Support on 3rd January 2011

what do u think about “CHILD SUPPORT”AND GUYS NOT WANTING TO PAY ?
MY BOYFRIEND HE ALWAYS SAYS THAT HE WILL NEVER PAY IT BECAUSE ALL THAT MONEY THAT THEY HAVE TO PAY THE KIDS DONT REALLY NEED.THAT AT THE END THE ONE THAT USES THE MONEY IS THE BXXXH!LOL
he says hell kill me if i ever do that.lol

Best answer(s):

Answer by ladyren
That never ought to be a problem…. if ya don’t want kids, get your tubes tied, or if you’re a guy, have a vas….. As my mama said, “Don’t have any children you cannot yourself support…. you just may have to. ”

‘Sides, the last thing this poor planet needs is unwanted kids.

Answer by Bryan M
I think child support is important to pay, because for a single parent trying to make it, it’s NOT easy.

Also I think guys who don’t want to pay it are sick cowards, who don’t give a damn about their kids. They are taking out their anger on their ex-wife or ex-gf thinking that she’s only going to spend the money on themselves. Which I think is terrible.

They helped bring a child into the world they damn well better support that child, even if they are not around in their lives.

It’s also not just men who do this. There are women who have to pay child support and don’t. Yes it’s more common with men having to pay, child support, but it does happen with women as well. Case in point, my wife and I have friends who have custody of their niece and her mother is suposed to be paying them child support and she’s not.

Answer by jimmb1967
He’s a loser plain and simple. I have four daughters whom I gladly pay child support for and also pay for anything they need. Those are my girls and it’s not their fault that their mother and I aren’t together. Assholes that don’t pay are only hurting the kids not the ex.

Answer by Lily
Far as I have ever seen…most guys that don’t pay, just plain don’t have the money/have never bonded with their children because the mommy never let him/was kicked out of the child’s life by the mommy/wasn’t the daddy anyways. In short if the daddy ain’t paying it is probably because the mommy wants all the control and money.

Answer by Rawr!
Well did you break-up wit’ him? If you wanted him out of your life then the hell, leave him alone.

Answer by Momma
You need to break it off with that kind of man,

My X pays 240 dollars a MONTH for child support,

trust me my 12 year old EATS more than that

M

Answer by Streaker
Okay, so he doesn’t want to support his kids…next time he has them, she shouldn’t send any clothes except for what’s on their backs and provide nothing else….I wish they would understand that the support goes for all area…electricity, gas, rent, food, clothing. He may not be in their lives but he needs to support them. It isn’t cheap or easy to do it by yourself.

Expect him to eventually be taking to court for the back support and if he refuses to pay, he can end up in jail. Bond is posted at the amount the back support is. Say he owes 6,000 in back support, his bond would be at 6,000….

Also, was HE NOT there when she got pg or was it another immiculate conception? He is their father and he needs to owe up to his part whether she needs to money or not shouldn’t matter

Answer by Special K
I think taking care of a child that was made by two people is mandatory. I will say that the people who levy he amounts don’t often have a clue as to what it takes to take care of a child. Many men think that if the x has a new car, that it was paid for with the child support money. Maybe them paying the child support allowed her to get a car because she was able to spend some of her own money on herself instead of taking care of his obligations as well as hers. Most dedicated parents will see that their children’s’ needs are met whether the deadbeats pay or not-I know I did!

Answer by PenguinMan
He isn’t a real man in my book. If you are there to create the child, you need to help raise it. Dump him before this becomes a real issue for you and you are stuck without the money to help raise a child.

Answer by AinePriestess
Your boyfriend should be helping to support his child. Notice the word helping. Too many single moms think of their babies daddies as check books. You have a finacial responsibility to that child too. Some child support payments are outrageous. No parent spend $ 700 dollars or more on one child. Even if they do why should only the noncustiodal parent be responsible for that? The system needs to be revamped and the custiodal parent needs to prove that all child support is used for the benefit of the child(ren).

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