HomeBabysittingWas it sexual abuse or an affair?
Posted in Babysitting on 2nd October 2013

Was it sexual abuse or an affair?
He touched my breasts when I was young, and I told him to stop, so he left me alone, I was only about 9 or 10 and did not know the severity of this harassment or what was. Later in my life came one night when I was 15 my stepfather was in my room and started kissing me in my sleep I started to wake up and really did not know what was going on, and he said, you know how hard it is being in love with you and your mother at the same time, pushed him away, because he made me sick.The I confronted him with it the next day and said, “You mean what you say” (I thought he had have sleepwalking and he was on strong medication the night before because he in which he made a bad attack. I did not say, because I would not believe me .. I went about my business my mother, and I have did not tell anyone. My mother would stay at home and “baby sit”, because he has seizures and could not be left alone by themselves. I did not, but she and me angry at me because I wanted to go with her ., I had to stay home with him and I was sitting on the couch and he came over and sat down beside me and started kissing me., I said wait, your married to my mother He bugged me for a long time, it to allow sexual things to do with him and he told me things he had dreamed roughly about me. Not only was I curious about sex, but he would not stop bugging me to be with him. finally collapsed so i I thought if I let him do, he would leave me alone. things he would say, “People fall in love, and things like this happen all the time.” as for me and if you ever your mother said she would kill us both, and when I would ask, what if I get pregnant end he the things I will say just kill me., and your mother would kill us. anyway, kept the sex and other things going on, and if he would make sure me I would go into the bedroom looking for him. my mother did nothing, but they told me i should not go in there room while he was there, but I went anyway., and they knew it something fishy everything, but she would never look into it more deeply she let it just go my mother knows everything and this day she still wants to be with him, so I ask you the following questions:..? What is your opinion, this is my Error I was abused, what do you think, what is your perception of this whole thing? HE IS in Gefängnis.Ich am now 20, my mother knows about it, but said I had an affair with him, the police were already before 5 years, this is y hes called in prison, I am now on my own and married my mother tell my friends what a whore I am parent, my mother told me that that was my fault, and only 50% give him the guilt, because she thinks I still had an affair so now I have a hard time understanding if it was abuse or if I really a whore Best Answer (s):.
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reply by Kristina Howarth
sexual abuse the police before he does hurt someone else

reply by Sarah
SEXUAL ABUSE , call the police

Reply shiannew
That’s not right. You must call the police. How literally get your ass of the internet and call them. Do this before he thinks he can get away with it. Show him your biger and badder than he is.

Reply mrsv
I only read the first part up to where your stepfather kissed you in your sleep. Either way …. Tell your mother – if they do not, a counselor, pastor, police officer, whatever. It does not matter who, as long as they are a trusted adult. This is not useful in every aspect. They should never be exposed to this or any other form of harassment. Medication is an excuse, seizures are an excuse, it is not akzeptabel.NEIN that is not your fault! This is the evil deeds of a sick man with a “disability” as an excuse to act inappropriately with a minor. He needs more help than any anti-seizure medications can give, and you have taken from this abusive environment immediately.

Reply by just me
it was sexual abuse! Your brain was not even in full at the time (not fully developed until you are 18) developed so you just knew what was right, what did your father figure / say. 0% of that was your fault! I’m sorry your mother says these things about you, probably because she feels bad that she did not STEP UP and his mom and take care of you, by you to stop the abuse. Also, if you would go looking for it, it is still not your fault, because that is what you have been conditioned to do as a child. Check out the book “to get rid of my shame,” the book has helped me has a lot in recovering from sexual abuse from my husband of my mother. My mother chooses to stay with him even though she knows what he did to me: (I have them both removed from mylife to protect myself and my family for emotional / physical / sexual abuse .

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