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Did you just feel like your baby would be late and turn out to be right?

Posted in Babysitting on 14th April 2014

Did you just feel like your baby would be late and turn out to be right?
I am due in 4 days with our first baby – a little boy in there 🙂

I just have a ‘feeling’ that Im going to be late.

We are due in 4 days yet I dont really feel like its going to happen!

I dont even think I feel like the baby has dropped yet – everyone keeps saying it will ‘feel like the baby is going to fall out” or that it will “feel like there is a boulder between my legs when I sit” …

and I dont feel like that at all ?

I have to pee NON stop- but thats it.

Did anyone else feel fine still – not like there was a boulder between your legs etc – yet the baby had actually dropped and you still delivered around your estimated due date ?

Best answer(s):

Answer by Invisible Pink RN
Unfortunately in my case yes =/

Answer by Jack’s mummy,Baby callum – 29th July♥
i actually thought my son was gunna come early i was laggin from week 39.. i was getting alot more tired & achey, he was 8 days late, your instinct isnt always right 🙂 when he did decide to come i didnt feel any different, just like normal

Answer by purplemist
with my first baby i knew i would go late. i had her when i was 40w5d along. im 34w3d and through the whole pregnancy i’ve had the feeling im going to go early and as it turns out im having signs that labor might be close, according to my doctor.

Answer by I’d rather be at the beach
it could be that your baby won’t drop until you’re in labor. my daughter didn’t drop until I was 20 hours into labor. Once my water broke, she came right down, and was born 20 mintues later.
My son stayed low, the entire pregnancy. I would have to move his head to sit down. He was a week early, but his labor was still long (25 hours)
My daughter was 5 days late. And I knew she wasn’t going to be on time, or early. We decided to go ahead and install her carseat, on my due date. I finished packing my hospital bag a few days later. I was just in no hurry, and neither was she

Answer by Baby V
I never felt the boulder thing at all with my son. I thought with no doubt in my mind I was going to go overdue with him and he came on his due date. I was planning on going to Mexico that day too, that’s how normal I felt. My water broke at 1am

What would be your reaction? ?

Posted in Working Mothers on 9th March 2014

What would be your reaction? ?
You are a part-time stepparent to 2 stepkids that have very few rules and almost no discipline. Their mom is going on a 9 day vacation and leaving them with you. You don’t live in the same town. They do not eat the same things. Their dad will be involved but works very long hours. You have 3 cats and a dog to look after. You work full-time. You had 0 say in this. How would you feel?
They are in school and have activities.
Their mom is an unfit mother. She is immature and selfish. I think she’s a narcissist. She doesn’t think of her kids. She was going to send them to 4 different houses for those 9 days.
My husband is coming down very hard on me for feeling a bit slighted in all of this. He thinks I should be all smiles and just do it. It’s very hard for me. Am I wrong to feel this way?
I know my obligations. But what about their mother? What about her? Where is her responsibility? We took the kids on vacation for a week. This is her 2nd vacation this year without the kids.
The weekends are fine. It’s the running around during the week with everything. I work full-time. My husband does too. It just seems really unfair.
I’m not unreasonable. I want bedtimes. I want one meal as opposed to 3 different meals each night. I’ll give in for one alternative. Thank you. I feel like I’m in the twilight zone. My husband was yelling at me over my reaction.
14 girl and 10 boy. The girl will have lots of homework. The boy not so much. He watches tv from the time he comes in to the time he leaves. That has to stop or I will go insane. He watches cartoons. My husband will be around to help but it will be mostly me.
I am angry towards their mother. I want to smack her, not really. She gets drunks and tells them because it’s funny to her. She’s 37.
I should tell you that I am nice and do what I can for these kids. I know I married them too essentially. It’s just the injustice of it all. My husband lets them rule the house. That’s how I feel. I don’t know what to do. I want to escape since I’m supposed to just go along with it. I want some rules. I don’t want to have them be so disruptive. You know how hard that is? After working and have to walk on egg shells? I guess I need to schedule some alone time. Is that ok?
I’m ready to cry from the stress. We have pets. I have errands to run during the week and on the weekend. I play my keyboard as a stress reliever. Maybe I’m worrying too much. At our wedding, a long time friend of my parents spoke to me because she didn’t like how much power the kids had. She was very concerned for me because she knows that I’m sweet and nice. I was being accommodating. She thought I was going too far, that I needed to stand up for myself. I’m trying to do that but I want to be fair. I know these kids are victims too.
I’ve bonded with my stepson. It’s harder with my stepdaughter. She’s just like her mother. Carbon copy. Very selfish and stubborn. Her way or she throws a major temper tantrum. It should be ok since she will be pretty busy.
I’ll do my best. I think if it were only 7 days and not 9-10 days, I might feel less stressed. It just seems beyond what should be acceptable. She is lousy.
I’ll try to involve my stepson but he’ll busy with his hamster that is coming too. She wanted to give us another cat too. My husband said no. They have a dog too. We have my stepson’s friends staying with us too for a day/night/morning.
I fully support having the children come live with us. I get a say. It’s my life too. I must be doing something wrong. I’m not telling it like it is. I’m p’od with their mom. She never takes any responsibility. She hands it off to someone else because she’s lazy.
I am trying to sort things out. I guess maybe I feel left out? I try to stay in but I’m doing the work around the house. Laundry, cleaning, taking care of pets, shopping for stuff we need, etc. I’m doing the work. I’m exhausted.
I almost wish there was someone that could see what was going on and give my perspective in better words. I just know that I’m not wrong here.
They will help out but not always. If I leave it to them, they won’t do it and I’ll end up doing it after they have gone or having to run out. I don’t ask for much. Just some help so the burden isn’t on me completely. I feel like they take advantage of my good nature. Maybe that is it?
I want the kids to come live with us. Their mom is an unfit mom. My husband knows this.
The kids won’t though because they won’t be able to get away with bloody murder. They will hear the word no now and again. There will be rules. It won’t be unfair. But it will be not what they are used to.
I guess the answer is that I need to suck it up and count down when it’s getting me down. I tried to get my husband to commit to some kind of planning. He wouldn’t do it. The kids are in charge. Oh joy! He can do the shopping and running around when we don’t have what they want.
I’m married. I didn’t know it would be like this. We pay almost $ 1000 a month in child support. It’s a lot. I see so much of it squandered because there is so much that the kids do not have. Mom has it all. I’m just crying for some responsibility from responsible parents. They had these kids. It’s kind of too late for them to not want to deal with them, don’t you think? I’m on board. I’m stressing. I like having a game plan. I know it can change but at least we have something to work from. At the very least, BLD, Snacks, Laundry, Showers, Time to get up, Time to go to bed, etc.
Homework time, tv time? Right now, it’s anything goes and it’s exhausting. We have them Wed nights for a few hours. It’s like a circus. Tv on and off constantly. 3 different dinners. My sd half finished with her dinner wants more. She finishes and then changes her mind. Never mind. I’m full now. She’s an idiot when it comes to stuff like that. I say, why don’t you finish before you say you want more? You usually don’t want more. I feel like a servant in my own home.
I guess I should just let my husband deal with it since he doesn’t want to plan or discuss? I’m not a mind reader. The solution is let my husband deal with it and I’ll be a supporting player. I said so much last night to him.
I don’t nag my husband. I just watch things not get done and then he gets upset. I’m like, well, you didn’t do it. If you want it done then you need to do it. He wants to tie me to the chair because I’m always doing something. Yeah, I’m not lazy.
I do 90% which is all I can handle. Ok? I can’t do everything. I can’t. I don’t have that kind of time. I barely sit now.
I should not have do 90%. I’m holding my ground. He needs to step up to the plate and I’m going to tell him so tonight. He agreed to this insanity so he’s going to help out more. If he’s monopolizing the washer/dryer then he’s doing our laundry too. I don’t want to hear him complain because I fold it and put it away.
Thank you Chottwo. I’ll stay strong. That’s good that you have your husband’s support. Maybe that’s an issue for me. My husband supports the kids at my expense. He’s making up for their mother or trying to. It’s not normal when they are there. There is so much that we would normally do but can’t do because they are there. It all adds up. He sides with the kids. It’s like I’m on my own. That is a problem. It shouldn’t have to be a them vs. me. It should be us. That’s what I want. US. not as it is, them vs. me.
Thank you. I think I have finally gotten to the bottom of it. My problem is that it needs to be us and not them vs. me. That’s how I feel. I need to feel that I have my husband’s support.
I’m going to make a bold statement. If he can’t give me more support then I will be prepared to walk away. I’m a good woman that deserves to have a husband that supports me too.

Best answer(s):

Answer by munkyluvr732108
wow

Answer by Robyn K
you definately should have had a say in it

Answer by MY EGGO IS PREGGO
you married the man knowing he had children and that you would become a stepmother.

Answer by N5
Hm, sounds like a scene from cinderella. Except everything is backwards.

Answer by Lisa
I wouldn’t be happy, but in marrying their dad, you are taking responsibility for his kids when he can’t be there.

Answer by Daemian B
That’s why I avoid getting involved with single mothers.

Answer by kwazywabbott
Why are you involved even “part-time” with this idiot! Find yourself someone worthwhile. In the meantime, move out while the useless little buggers are in school and change your cell number. Screw ’em.

Answer by weekam94
well what to do is on weekends go out to parks with them and try to bond with them they will calm down

Answer by omarjafet
Extremely overwhelmed, I wish you the best.

Answer by Michael
w0w…thats crazy how the mother doesnt care!

In the Twilight series, I would like to know what happens in Eclipse.?

Posted in Babysitting on 6th January 2014

In the Twilight series, I would like to know what happens in Eclipse.?
I want to know what happened, because my mom did not get me the book is not, is anyone willing to tell me? Does Bella become a vampire yet? Users will also be on the Cullen vampires? Finally, Victoria has to get their revenge? = ] Oooh I can not wait = P Best Answer (s):

by Jessica L Reply
no no noo haha ​​and

response of drugs are quick.
bella not to a Vampir.keiner knows the Cullens as Vampire.und Victoria not to get their revenge (:

response of Flintstone GiiRL me is Algerian
Bella not to become a vampire, but she said after they get married (in Breaking Dawn) Bella kisses Jacob finds out shes in love with him .. but she loves Edward more .. Victoria finds but edward kill Victoria .. ermm Jacob leaves at the end when he gets and invitation to Bella’s wedding .. and it ends there

skateridedraw
1) a party answer2) a aliance3) a very interesting tent Szene4) an interesting Schlafzimmerszene5) a very angry jacob (sorry if you on Team Jake)

Answer by Edward lover 4ever! a
. Bella did not become a vampire, but she and Edward have a compromise …. You see, Bella wants to have a more human experience with Edward before they become a vampire … can you imagine what that is? This explains that Edward, as long as she marries him …. and thus it agrees that! 2 No one else finds out about the Cullens and their secret … it is still Bella and the boys of La Push … 3 Victoria goes to Washington with an army of newborn vampires to get their revenge on Bella, but Edward kills her, and Bella is unaffected, I can not believe that you wanted to spoil the book for you! Well, I guess it’s ok … my father almost did not get to me, but then I just told him that at least the money is going to a book, and not a mindless video game or something (but I would not want a video game anyway)

Answer by Ivy
sweetness, this question has been asked dozens of times b4 3. look at those. and no no and no

Reply lol_for_summer
The story with the revelation that Seattle is from a series of unsolved murders, which Edward suspects that begins to be plagued cause a newborn vampire who does not control his thirst. Edward and Bella fill out college applications, while Bella explains to Edward her desire to see Jacob, her werewolf friend again. Meanwhile, Alice Cullen has a vision that Victoria, a vampire who is hunting Bella, is back in town. Although Edward fears for her safety, insists that Bella, Jacob and the rest of the pack werewolf would never harm them, but Edward is still not convinced. While Edward and his brothers leave the city to hunt, Alice, Edward’s sister, is left to “babysit” Bella.Während the school runs Bella with Jacob. When Bella comes after in the Cullen’s house unharmed, Edward is convinced that the pack of werewolves were harmless, and allows them to visit Bella Jacob once in a while. During one of these visits, Jacob tells Bella that he is in love with her and forcefully kisses her, much to her displeasure. She reacts by punching him as successor to break into their hands. Edward angrily threatens Jacob when Bella brought home again, saying that if he ever kisses Bella again without her permission, he is his jaw to brechen.Ein few days later tried to Bella Edward to sleep with her before in a vampire. Edward refuses at first to tell Bella that he is very easy to kill. Finally, after realizing how much it means to Bella, he says that he is ready, as long as they are married first try in the future is. Despite having an aversion to marriage, Bella realizes that spending eternity with Edward is more important to her than anything else and accepts his Vorschlag.Bella and the Cullens realize that the murders in Seattle is by Victoria and an “army” of newborn vampires committed. The Cullen family joins forces with the werewolf pack to combat this threat. Like everyone else prepares for battle, Edward and Bella camp in the mountains, where they wait Clearwater, a young member of the werewolf pack later by Jacob and Seth, the fight verbunden.Am morning listening to Jacob Edward and Bella on their engagement and is very excited. He threatens the fight and get himself killed because Bella does not love him if Bella begs him not to, says Jacob, that he did not do so when she asks him to kiss her. Furious, she does so, and while kissing him realizes that she fell in love with him as well. However, she explains that her love for Edward is much greater, and that without him not live.The Cullens, as well as the werewolf pack, suffer no losses during the fight and successfully destroy Victoria and her army.

Reply Curious_16
You’re just spoil it for yourself now. You should beg harder. Please Say-Mama. lol

ED response
Google eclipse.pdf and read it for yourself, it is or scibd or 4shared in esnips