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How do I tell my parents I want to be able to date?

Posted in Working Mothers on 20th April 2014

How do I tell my parents I want to be able to date?
Well, i’m 14 and an upcoming freshmen. I have been “with” this guy since the 8th grade. I want to tell my parents, but i’m scared. I’m the oldest in the family and have been considered the “2nd mother” since my mom always work. I’ve had 4.0 GPA throughout my middle school year and I take care of my 3 siblings daily. A lot of people say kids my age don’t know what we’re doing and in my point of view, I just want to try out “new” things. I’ve tried talking to my mom about it but she always ask, “Why do you want one?.” I’ve tried many times, but i’m too nervous. Especially my dad. Oh and this guy is a year older than I am but in the same school grade as me. He’s always gotten into honor roll and a 4.0 GPA. He’s very nice and knows his limits. What should I do? Please help, thank you 🙂

Best answer(s):

Answer by Couv Hing
tell them you have a date

Answer by Junior
Common really? Nobody asks their parents for permission to date. Just go for whoever you like without fearing. I mean come on, what can they do? Make you break up with him? Doubt it… Sides you are a freshman, lots of people start dating since they are 6th graders and stuff. XD

Answer by Brian
Tell whichever one you’re most comfortable with that you’re going somewhere with him, and tell them how wonderful he is. Make him seem like a really smart guy who’s going somewhere in life, and your parents will accept him. It’s not that you just want a boyfriend, it’s that you like this guy and you want to be closer with him, you want a relationship that isn’t just friends, because he’s special to you, and you’ve decided you don’t want to date anyone else.

Answer by Kathy Murphy
Sweetheart — You may only be 14 in years, but caring for your siblings on a daily basis has matured you. Your grades are great, keep up the good work. Seeing that your boyfriend also is a great student, tells alot about both of you. No wonder you are attracted to each other.
I’m the mother of 4, one boy and three girls, so I do know some about your problem. Try to ask your parents if it would be ok for you to date in groups or one set of parents could drive you two somewhere and pick you two up at the appointed time. I allowed my girls to group date and also dropped them off at movies, Miniature golf or things they were interested in. Maybe he could hang out @ your house for a day so your parents could get to know him.
Good Luck.

Answer by dulceaide8
You sound like the perfect daughter, sister and student
just tell your parents that you like this guy and that you both are good
students and that you being in this “relationship” with this guy won’t affect
your school or relationship with your siblings. They should know that you are
mature enough to determine if you want to date or not.

Did he really want to take a break or is he just trying not to hurt me?

Posted in Babysitting on 27th November 2013

Did he really want to take a break or is he just trying not to hurt me?
I’m 15 and my boyfriend is a little more than 20 (No, it’s not “babysitting” call). I did something that really dump & was stupid and let him really be angry and stressed out. He ignored me for about a week, that got me really worried and scared. I wanted to talk to him, but it was really hard trying to contact him. On 5 Day I called him, he said he wanted to take a break. He said that I’m still young and I just focus on my education. Because I’m still young, he said he did not want to stir up any problems. In our culture, people like to care about other people, he also said that he does not want anyone talking about me, because I with someone as old as him clap. He sounded really stressed when I talked to him. He told me to wait until I do. Graduated from high school, so it will be easier for us He said that if I can do it (I think he meant, if I go on without him .. Because now?) We might see each other again. He also said that I do not know how to love … What does this mean? My friend has a big heart and is mature and respectful. Since I do not do a lot of experience, I get confused what he said, at some point …. I do not know if he really wanted a break, or if he just tries softer to make the break? He also said he no longer wants to be my friend …? What does confuse me ..? I can not call him … Even if I message him .. He did not reply back …. What should I do? If you’re going to be rude, please do not comment myself because I know that you do not understand. Thank you. ^ _ ^ Best Answer (s):

Emerald answer
It’s a break up. Stop trying to contact him. It makes you look desperate, which only proves his point even more. It hurts, but the best thing you can do is to start your attention elsewhere. Graduation is a big deal, and most people over twenty frown from high school students. Take all the positive and negative energy and turn it into motivation, determination, self-confidence and so on. Learn from the bad moments, and appreciate the good moments, and move on.

response from Michael
stopped reading at “dump & stupid ‘

I want to start selling insurance. I just graduated from college. No insurance background.?

Posted in Working Mothers on 19th September 2013

I want to start selling insurance. I just graduated from college. No insurance background.?
I looked at it and said the State Farm licensing and training may, after the expiration of twelve months. He also said it would hired six weeks if selected. State Farm is good? Are there better company? I feel this is a really long process. How about Liberty Mutual Best Answer (s):

reply by Rosalie R
What a huge question. First of all, if you are lucky your college degree contain a little work in the world of mathematics. The insurance industry is all about mathematics and statistics and averages and Tabellen.Zweitens you need to know that the insurance is marketed through two different “channels”. Companies like State Farm have their own offices (called agents), and their own employees (called agents), and only sell their own insurance. Thus, training is something they kontrollieren.Das other delivery system is through insurance brokers. These people are insurance brokers that have their offices and sell many different brands of insurance. Brokers train their people in the “art” of selling insurance, and a little about the various companies Produkte.Schließlich you need to know that there are two different types of insurance. People and things insurance insurance. Normally, the life and health insurance, you mean for the people are just that: life and health. For insurance for things (like your car and house) we use the term accident insurance. Each type has to start his own policy, departments “mother” company and potentially own Agenten.Um with, I would suggest you chat with a broker, and a successful one. For example, go to the local grocery store, find the manager / owner and ask who handles the accident insurance. Then when talking with this person, they ask who the largest life and health insurance brokerage einsehen.Nach a conversation with them, you follow your head and get a Ausbildung.Viel luck.