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Is this normal for my girlfriend or should I end it?

Posted in Babysitting on 9th May 2014

Is this normal for my girlfriend or should I end it?
my girlfriend and I were at a party and we were talking about how much fun it would be, but at the party she barley talked or payed any attention to me but she would always be with her friends and we kissed a few times but it felt rushed… what should I do is this normal? do girls just generally pay less attention to their boyfriends when around friends??

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Answer by Bob Crap
If they’re guy friends you’re in trouble buddy

Answer by Lina
Yikes! Sometimes we do. But hey, tell her about it. Ask her why she was barely with you. Let her know you don’t like it. Perhaps she’ll understand. She shouldn’t be ignoring you though. That’s not right and I know it feels horrible. Like I’ve stated, remind her that you’re her boyfriend, and she should pay attention to you also! If things continue well it might be best to end it >.<

Answer by DTKB
Kevan, the quickest way to lose a girl is to be clingy and possessive. Nobody likes to feel as though they have to “take care of” and/or “babysit” their boyfriend (or girlfriend) at a party. It is no fun!

Besides, everybody hates the couple that cannot be apart from each other at a party for more than 2 seconds—it SCREAMS insecurity and its weird and gross. Your girlfriend came by and checked on you—even kissed you a couple of times. It felt rushed? Maybe your girlfriend is not into that clingy PDA kind of thing. You are free man—why didn’t you go around and chat it up with some of the other people at the party? There had to be plenty of people you knew and tons of people who you’ve yet to meet. A party is a place to circulate and interact with other people. She was having a good time with her friends—its not as though she was chasing after men all night long.

You came together, you met up together a few times during the party, and who did she leave the party with???? She left with you. You need to do is get a life and not depend on your girlfriend to entertain you 24/7 like the town clown.

SUKI………..why is she doing this to me ? Why do some people don’t understand others emotions ?

Posted in Child Care on 1st May 2014

SUKI………..why is she doing this to me ? Why do some people don’t understand others emotions ?
In my contacts there is a woman colled Suki. Her answers are just sublime….fantabulous.
I don’t know who she is, or how she looks, but still I have fallen in love with her..
By love I just don’t mean anything nasty , but that I respect her, I have a certain degree of affection for her and I do “feel” for her.. as a friend feels for a friend. She doesn’t allow emails , so how on earth would I talk to her .
I have posted this question again and again ……and 3 weeks ago she saw it and wrote a few lines to me as answers. She also mentioned that she isn’t interseted in talking to strangers. Well, since I took this much “pain” from all around this globe to contact her , is it not her responsibility to give me ONE chance to talk to her ? I just want to know more about you SUKI, to know more about what you feel, how you think , and if possible try to be your friend. I am just a college student and what harm could I possibly do to u SUKI ?
I have been in a relationship with you for the past 7 months. The only thing is that, you don’t know it.
Please GOD, give me atleat one chance to talk to my SUKI please…..
And my friends in Yahoo! Answers, please tell me…. am I that much wrong and unethical in asking to just talk to her ??
P.s She is a psychologist and I have no intentions in asking from therapy from her over the net, because this is what she thought when she answered and read my question 3 weeks ago.I have no intentions in crossing her professional lines….All I ask is for a little friendship.
Is it too much to ask for ONE chance friends ???
Maybe my tone sounded a little “taken for granted”. Forgive me Suki if I have hurt you again. But believe me, I am on my knees when I am writing this …..I PRAY TO HIM THAT SUKI READS THIS AND WRITES BACK SOMETHING TO ME…..

And why is it that I feel so helpless so frustrated and so “sad” when I learnt that she smokes ? Why does it troubles me to know that it would do harm to her ? At my heart, I feel that she is very good and she has a gleeful “child” somewhere within her who loves to relax with movies and junk food……..
I don’t know why am I thinking about her…..
help me Suki, whereevr you are,,,,,,,I again “plead before you”

Best answer(s):

Answer by SQPR
You’re a creeper, dude.

Answer by kiri
She probably doesn’t like you. It’s better to just leave her alone than to let her get freaked out if you really “care” about her.

Answer by Mo
you are both a creeper and a pathetic fool. your emotions arnt real your just in some kind of fantasy. dont ask God or anyone else to help you with such foolishness. wake up and try getting to know someone for real before claiming your in love and stalking their life

What do you think this goofy dream means?

Posted in Toddlers on 2nd April 2014

What do you think this goofy dream means?
I dreamed that my boyfriend was at my house. We were sleeping and I woke up and found all these dirty diapers on the floor. Some of them were open. Then there was a blonde baby boy who was about 1, and he was running around the bedroom. Then all of a sudden my boyfriend looked like this guy that I work with and he was crying. He said, “You have hurt me so much.” Then I looked at the ceiling all all of these black birds were on the ceiling. I wondered how they got there. Then I noticed that my bedroom walls looked like mesh and there were all these holes. So I thought I need to call my landlord about that. Do you think there is any meaning to this dream at all? So here is reality. I haven’t hurt my boyfriend, since our relationship is new. We don’t have any children.

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Answer by Sarah
Maybe it’s just a bad dream, or that is part of your future? Sorry. Not all of it will be your future. Maybe you might marry your bf or your co worker? And have a baby. IDK. haha

Answer by im
Peculiar. In your dream you’re living in a bird cage. The walls are perforated to let in air and light (“my bedroom walls looked like mesh and there were all these holes”), the floor is covered with, well, grit (“I woke up and found all these dirty diapers on the floor. Some of them were open.”), and there are other birds in the cage with you (“all of these black birds were on the ceiling”).

You’ve probably seen the film or the play “La Cage aux Folles”, about an aging drag queen, a drama queen really, and his lover. It isn’t much of a leap from the French “folles” (“birds”) to the English “fools”. In your dream you find yourself in the cage of fools, three of them, all boys. The first is a very young toddler (“a blonde baby boy who was about 1, and he was running around”), the second is your boyfriend, who changes as soon as you look at him into a whiny man from work (“all of a sudden my boyfriend looked like this guy that I work with and he was crying”). It wouldn’t surprise me to learn that you know a fourth whiny boy/man who actually said to you “You have hurt me so much.”

That’s because I’m reminded of the children’s nursery rhyme “Sing a song of sixpence / Pocket full of rye / Four and twenty blackbirds / Baked in a pie”. So perhaps there are twenty blackbirds (folles) above you, and four fools represented down below. That might also explain why the cage isn’t constructed with bars like most bird cages, but with perforated metal, suggesting both a ventilated pie tin and the ventilation holes in the top crust of a double-crusted pie. It would be too much to ask that one of these men is named “Merle” (Fr: blackbird), or maybe Haggard (a pun in some parts of the world).

“So I thought I need to call my landlord about that.” I’m sorry, that is *soooo* funny. You are really quite unflappable.