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can my husbands ex wife take my life insurance left to my husband for my 2 sons, in the event of my death?

Posted in Child Support on 25th May 2014

can my husbands ex wife take my life insurance left to my husband for my 2 sons, in the event of my death?
He is in arrears and is paying on the arrears and child support every month. I was just concerned that she could take my small life insurance amount for herself if it is left in my husband’s name. does anyone know?? I don’t plan on dying anytime soon but I want my children to have something if I do.

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Answer by Angelina
She can’t take your life insurance, it would be in your name. Don’t worry about it.

Answer by Gee
Probably going to have to ask a lawyer this question (I have the sneaky belief that yes she can). If that is the case you might set up a trust fund.

Answer by bustersmycat
make the children the beneficiaries with your husband as executor until they reach the age of attainment (become officially adult). If it goes to your husband, it is attachable for the arrears.

Answer by Petunia
Leave it to your children and under his care… She can’t touch a dime of it.
I have been threw the same ordeal and I did just that by advice from a Lawyer.

Answer by arklatexrat
You should probably set it up as a trust for your sons and not leave it to your husband. Otherwise, she would probably have a pretty good case to take it.

Why not just help him catch up on the child support payments now? His ex also has children by him that she is concerned about raising. Try and look at this from her perspective—he left her high and dry and you are only concerned about you and yours?

Answer by sunnycamp
i dont know about life insurance but the day he dies you better call the social security office because if the first wive doesn’t remarry she can file for his SS and she will get it you will have to fight it out with the SS office to fix it could take up to a year,i only know this because a woman i once knew did this to her dead exs wife even though they had been divorced for over 20 years

Answer by honey
I would set it up for the children not your husband, that way you can be sure it goes to the children. Ask your insurance agent, he shoukd be able to help.

Answer by Cpt Kirk
Not if your two sons are named as the beneficieraries on the policy and not your husband. You can make him the proctor of the policy which means the boys keep the money but he oversees how they spend it.

Answer by brwneyedgrl
any life insurance policy money for either parent in the case of a death goes to the provider of the person who gets the kids after ur death, as “child support” .. if u dont want them to inherit the money till they reach of age u need to write out a will and have it set up that way. Your x husband if he has a life insurance policy on himself.. until the children reach 18 the kids get the life insurance policy money up to the amount of child support owed until they are of age.. example if he has a 100,000 life insurance policy.. and he owes 60,000 on the children between now and they are 18 then the kids get 60,000 and his wife gets 40,000.

Can Child Protective Services legally take a child if an alternative suitable housing can be provided?

Posted in Child Care on 16th May 2014

Can Child Protective Services legally take a child if an alternative suitable housing can be provided?
So my sister was recently arrested for drug related charges. This resulted in an investigation from the CPS. Following the investigation they scheduled a meeting to discuss options. During the meeting they ruled that my sisters daughter can return home under certain stipulations. (My Aunt was at the meeting as well and agreed to take custody if necessary. My aunt is a suitable guardian with now record what so ever.)
So later that day CPS came to the door with a court order and a couple police officers. There were items on the police report that they received that caused them to reverse the decision. They took the child from my sister and said that she is being taken into emergency foster care until a meeting on Monday (today is friday)
I understand that they can rule the living situation unsuitable for the child and have every right to order the child to be removed from the household. But when they came in we told them that my aunt can and will take her out of the house right now and will keep her away from my sisters home.
The paper work said that the child will be sent to foster care “If a suitable guardian is not available”
But we did have a suitable guardian willing and available to take the child. One that was present at the meeting.
So, are they legally allowed to take her even if we were willing to relocate her to a suitable alternative home? I really dont like the idea of my niece with strangers.

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Answer by Kristi Howard
Yes they can do that. Your aunt needs to go before the child protective services and get into an agreement where she can be approved in the fast track situation to take care of her.

Answer by parsnipianna
Yes, the suitable guardian part will be discussed at the next meeting. Sucks, I know. You are all going to need more patience than you should have to have. Hang in. And stay calm and polite.Keep thinking “It’s for ____________'(child). It’s for ______.

Answer by Jan
Of course they are legally allowed to take her. Before they place the child in your aunts care she will have to be evaluated. They don’t just stick a child with a family member without first investigating their background and home situation.

Answer by Alan Clark
The law in most state give this option, However the state has the final say period.And if they so deem You may not have access to the child at all.She put her daugther in this situation.and ya,ll did nothing to protect .the Child. So the state has and will do what it thinks is neccessary to insure the safety and well being of this Girl.I,m really Sorry about this But when the state steps in,Depending on the case work. they have complete control.I imagine Though with repeated persverance ya,ll should be able to get her Home. Don,t give up.

my mom told me to “take care of my brother”?

Posted in Babysitting on 1st April 2014

my mom told me to “take care of my brother”?
should she have to raise this baby in my tummy?

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You’re the surrogate?

Answer by Vic Carren

Answer by Sparkle
Er…I’m a bit confused and disturbed. Are you saying your brother is the baby in your tummy or that these are two seperate babies? If the first one, I hope your daddy is in jail. If the second one – what you’re doing with your brother is called “babysitting” not “raising” what you’ll do with your baby is “raise” it. You’ll notice the difference, trust me. Your mom can babysit but you got knocked up take responsibility.

Answer by Ramirez
Wasn’t ur space bar messed up hmm..

Answer by Ameria
Shut up

Answer by Haven

Answer by ♥.♥.Perfect Angel♥.♥.
huh!! shut up..

Answer by I Am Teacher!
Incest is not something to laugh at…..

Answer by Gu!таг!sт
That is not funny.
My father raped my mother and it resulted in me…
And for those of you who think I’m joking:
1. You live in a fantasy world.
2. Look at my birth certificate.

Answer by Darshan Good
your the older brother so just look after the baby , i mean what is your mom doing , if she is working then she is earning money to feed you and play for all the bills

you may have things to do but we all need to make sacrifices sometimes your younger brother is always gonna need you to guide him and this si where it starts