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Posted in Babysitting on 17th April 2014

my husband secretly watches porn but I am a nymph!! Why??
We are married with a child and have a LOT in common, Since the baby I have worked VERY hard on losing all the weight and I’m now down to 150lbs. He even says I’m looking sexier. We have sex only 2 or 3 times a week because he’s tired from work or working a second job on weekends, but EVERYDAY I always remind him that if he’s in the “mood” we can. But if he’s got something to do than he won’t because it makes him “tired”. He knows I don’t beleive in porn because it’s lusting after someone else so he’s been caught having it hidden in the house before we were married but after we were married he supposedly got rid of all of them. Well, a couple of days ago I wore a thong and matching bra for him, but didn’t get any.. the very next day I left for the grociery store while our baby was napping and he was working on remodeling our bathroom. When I got home ONLY 20 MINUTES LATER I found a napkin with the “evidence” in it . The next day I found his hiding place for his porn! WHY!!!????
“You have heard that it was said, `Do not commit adultery.’ But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. If your right eye causes you to sin, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell.” MATTHEW 5 VERSES 27-29

Best answer(s):

Answer by lady31
It sounds like he isn’t interested in you.

That is just wrong…..I don’t understand why a man would chose his “hand” over his “wife”

Answer by Quasimodo1957
Jesus I wish I knew. Where the heck were you when I was looking for a wife?

Answer by Optimist
He needed a quickie without performance stress.

Answer by Pattyboy
He might need something more…..maybe you are just not giving him excatly what he needs or doing something wrong…..

Answer by candi
my hubbie did the same thang gurl… i just got a bf who like to do the deed. with a child, that be hard to do. what i reccomend is y’all talk to him bout it, see what he says. if he’s like most men, he has a good reason.

Answer by empresstnt
just talk to him about it.tell him how you feel.

Answer by Just Breathe
I wouldn’t worry about it. For some people…’illicit’ sex is exciting. If the two of you weren’t having sex at all, then I’d be worried…but 2-3 times a week is pretty okay in my book.

Answer by Nice Lady, ViolationNotice Queen
He could be married to the Dallas Cowboy cheerleaders and he’d still like porn.

The sooner to realize that it has nothing to do with any shortcomings you might have, the better.

Answer by C-DOGG
Good question. I don’t have an answer for this one. I would think he would be all over you. Tired? BS. Sit down with him and ask him. You sound to good to be true to me.

Answer by Denis B
I don’t know why………I’d be all over you, I don’t understand….don’t get me wrong, I’m a guy…I like porn, to an extent. But to neglect an actual woman in my presence that wants real sex…………damn, I’d kill for less.
I live with my girlfriend, who is 12 years younger and gorgeous……..but she has a very low sex drive, and I have a very healthy sex drive, I want it everyday…..I’m lucky if I get it once a week……..and I don’t turn to porn.

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