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Posted in Working Mothers on 4th August 2012

In need of an older persons advice on dating situation?
I have a bit of a scenario that I am a little confused about you tell me what do you think.Well first when I first started talking to this guy, i asked him out for coffee, he said that he would meet up with me but said he couldnt because he had to work until 2 in the morning, but that he would call me the next day, in which he didnt,so I thought well forget him,..so months later somehow we got back in contact and were talking and I can hear kids in the background, and he tells me that he watches his childs mothers other two kids whom she has by someone else..so I thought okay well maybe hes just a kinds considerate father, ..so anyhow I go over to his apartment and hes acting very stangely, he actually looks around corners and hallways,…he was looking out the window..I ask him “What is wrong” his response “Nothing” he says “I just know sometimes kids play and hurt themselves around here” so I just want to make sure they’re okay”..so I walk out of his apartment and he walks like wayyy behind me” and he told me her schduele he says she works from like 11 pm 7 am, ..so we talk a few months after that and I notice that he doesnt pick up his phone during the day sometimes, he mainly texts..which he says is because hes at work or with his son, so these last couple of times we;ve tried to get together he tells me “Oh no spending the night” because its always he has to do something with his son, or be at work, or court,..so a week ago I go to his apartment, and I notice his last name”Mitchell” on the telephone directory for apt #103, so I ‘m thinking hmmm did he move, because I thought he lived on the second floor, so I buzz apt 103, and a woman and kids walk out, and so I’m thinking I must have the wrong apt, and I walk upstairs to the apt that he lives in which is on the second floor, the lady walks up the stairs and follows me, and gets aggressive and asks me “Who are u here to see” and I look at her face more closely, and what do you know its his baby mother”..so I kind of panic and make up a name, and she walks away and then follows me to my car,..and she goes back in the house, so the guy i had been seeing pulls up, and tells me to meet him at his apt, which is on the second floor, and he tells me he feels guilty for leading me on,…and I ask him if there is someone else and he says no.,but I feel like theres something more, but how could he live up stairs and his baby mother lived downstairs in seperate apartments..does this make sense, I mean when I looked inside his room, he has clothes, a mattress in his room, but no food in the refigerator, on his facebook page he has his status as “single” lol,, I dont know what do you think??If he is with her why would he chance me coming over and a possibility that we would run into each other” or do you believe he is single and I’m just looking to far into things?

Best answer(s):

Answer by Cari
from an older person………learn how to get to the point quicker….much quicker…you are boring everyone who reads your questions.

Answer by staremwi
Girl…run away from this guy. He is lying to you. You are going to look like the jerk if you continue with this…he will see to it. Good Luck

Answer by eye 4 n eye
took a little while but my advice is this…STEER CLEAR.

Answer by Velvet
tHIS COULD BE A FRIENDS APT OR MAYBE HE GOT KICKED OUT OF HIS BABY MAMA APT FOR CHEATING. IF SHE ACTED THAT WAY TO YOU OBVIOUSLY HHE HAS NOT BEEN NICE TO HER (CHEATER) DO YOU WANT TO END UP LIKE HER? rUN FAST, THERE ARE GUYS EVERYWHERE!

Answer by Jan
Sounds to me him and his wife are scamming the welfare system

Answer by mannon
From an older person who got “duped” before:
Hang it up. He’s either married or still entangled otherwise with his kids’ mother.
He only wants to see you at certain times and in certain places? Loose him before you get hurt.
Don’t do this to yourself, he’s too dishonest – and too weird – to be worth it.
Move on, and find someone who appreciates you, not someone who’s just looking for a booty call.

Answer by Dave M
To much to read Dear –

Answer by StReaper
He’s a liar.
Leave him alone.
Unless you are dumb and like drama.

Answer by Lona
Much too long and boring.
We can do a Q but not a book.

Answer by Suzianne
Good grief! Can’t you take a hint? He has done everything but draw you a picture to indicate he is not available.

Why would he chance you coming over? Elementary biology, dear.

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