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Posted in Working Mothers on 15th November 2010

question of Momo’s got some nice looking cupcakes . How can I ever had a relationship with my “father” again ?
I have no interest in repairing the damaged relationship with my “mother”. I despise this woman practically. Honestly now, I despise them both. Back in April I was forced into an abortion by the 2 of them and the father of the child. Then, in May, later they sent me to Costa Rica to stay with an aunt, and promised me I could come back any time I wanted. Well, I am still in Costa Rica and they do not want to bring me back. I do not have money for a ticket, blah blah it’s not about the money. I have thoughts of suicide and told my “parents” I wanted to kill me because I am absolutely miserable in this country. They laughed and told me to call the psychologist. They call me maybe once a month, and hardly reply to emails. In addition, do not take the advice of the psychologist them. I think you are constantly, and keep betraying me. I do not think my “parents” no more and I’m not her daughter. I do not understand why someone do this the child. I have a hard time dealing with my loss, and she has just left here and I feel so much worse. (It was the homeless or whatever I was wearing even.) They told me if I went back to the U.S., I will not be able to go to college or work. They took back my car and my phone service turned off. I’m 19 and I have decided to no longer live with them, even though I live on the street. The last time on the phone, I told my father that he does not know how it feels to lose a child. He revealed that he lost a son. Why did he make me lose mine? Why should he put his daughter through the same pain he went through? That made me even angrier at him. I miss the relationship I had with my father, we were very close. But I do not think I ever be able to forgive him. Can someone help me? I do not know what to do ist.Haben you ever been in this situation Best Answer:

reply just wondering
When I was 14, my mother got a new friend. I was really uncomfortable around him because of what her former boyfriends had put me through. after a few months they decided that he wanted us to move. she said to me and my brothers about it and said if we were uncomfortable with him then let him move it, but wouldnt Surprise Surprise 1 week after my 15th Birthday, he moved in.Ich was then diagnosed with depression, and anxiety and even made a suicide attempt. My mother and her friend then said that I’m doing it for attention. A few weeks later I was assulted of him. Mama took his hand and said I had “earned” I moved with my grandmother, and asked if her friend could go somewhere every few weekends, so I go back and stay and my brothers. although that never happened. I was then moved to a foster home. My mother sent me letters never, never called, never apologized. they didn’t even send me a birthday card to my 16th Geburtstag.Ich have sworn never forgive her. ever. for what they had by me, put (theres a lot more that happened from the age of 6-14), but then I realized that I needed my brothers, I needed a real family. I was still only a child. I forgave her and her boyfriend. I forgot everything that happened because I needed had to be happy. I needed to be loved, and I was willing to give them a second Chance.obwohl this the absolute last chance they bekommen.Sprich with your parents, and they listen to prehaps get a mediator? find out why they did what they did. Some parents are just trying to protect childeren it (without realizing it is about it the wrong way), even tho it does damn weh.Wenn you want to forgive them, make sure they know that these exist, the last Chance.stark and be happy:) Everything happens for a reason:) hope i helped xxx

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