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Posted in Toddlers on 8th November 2012

Can you come to a 2-year good decisions?
What do you think of this current trend in education think? Is it effective? I was waiting outside a restaurant when I saw a toddler push an older child back in a flowerbed. The victim screamed, was hurt but not really. Mommy quietly and gently says the pushy kid, “Well Michael, we make a good choice?” He looked at his mother with the most confused look in his eyes. Poor child had to think: “Worked for me good mom What is your problem.” I wanted to laugh out loud when this happened, but did not dare let a stranger know that I thought the whole situation was funny. Must admit I was rooting for the little guy. He was just a normal kid dealing with a sibling. What confused me was the parent reaction. Times have changed a lot since I was raising my own children Best Answer (s):.

Reply by Katie M
2 y.o. Children make impulsive, irresponsible decisions sometimes. Michael does not really matter that he made a bad choice. If that was my child, it would have a consequence. I am so fed up with spoiled, indulged children.

reply by Patti
When I had my 2 year old to make their own decisions, they would make eating Hershey bars for breakfast and pouring motor oil on a rain puddle rainbow. No, it’s not a good idea and a bad idea to allow a child to believe that he has the power … they are still tantrums at this age, as it is … Terrible Two’s. A child expert said two-year-olds are temporarily insane, and that about sums it up.

reply by Christine H
Loving it, I always say the mother is in my children, “Who’s the mom?” They look at me as if my few remaining Marbles have lost, but they trust their children to me … And yes, they can be a good choice … make between chocolate cake and jelly beans!

response PAM
i dunno but I heard from the mouth of babes comes wisdom ..

reply by Glenda
you think it makes it look like a great mother. I saw it all while working with the public, so many parents Jahren.Als me in this situation I would not say a word, but she quickly went to the car and drove home. My children learned quickly that it’s easy to not pay to trade in places where people need to behave around. They would not all that I have said, listen. Other people are not amused by misconduct children OR “perfect” parents. You just want to enjoy themselves and have a decent quiet meal away from home.

response from Bears Mom
I think it’s crazy! Children need boundaries and as parents it is our responsibility to set these limits. Seems like the trend today to let the child do what he or she!

response of Sew What?
biennial Obviously, you can not want to trust is to take to make good decisions. They are impulsive. However, as 2 years old developed language, it is time to start for teaching about choice. Do you want the red or the green? I think this mother comments are more suitable for a child at least vier.In this case I would have given love and attention to the “victims”. I would have gone after the misconduct directly. Michael, I do not like it when you hit your brother. I’d better keep on you while we drive (or whatever) to go. Take his hand and then ignore ihn.Ich would not make too much of the incident you saw. Who knows what a day Mom? Who knows what’s going on in their lives? Are you a parent? I am (with grown-up sons, thank God above). I remember two boys 22 months apart. It has helped me to understand why guppies eat their young. I have not always correct everything. I bet you do not either. My sons grew up to be caring, responsible people. I bet you did to your children.

reply by e-ma
Yes, with parental guidance limiting their opportunities to 2 or 3 Dinge.Nicht vaguely something like this mother bot.Ich prefer simplicity as “you can to eat their lunch, or you can sit on the couch and read one of your books, ready to eat the rest of us. ” Deviation from these decisions represented a memory of the last * choice * unpleasant.

answer by Frankie uk
I think that the biggest decision can a 2-year “Do I have to eat these foods do not throw it on the floor?” This mother sounds like one of those trendy, the indoctrinated with the idea that we never had a negative word like was “naked.” Before they know it when they begin to teach some real discipline, it is a tyrant of a teenager to have their hands, and he is to rule the household.

response from Ritaah
No, you must guide 2 years, and if that leadership comes from an immature adult, it is as bad as no instructions at all. When children do something wrong, they do need to know that it’s wrong. If you hurt someone, they must know that it hurt. If they break something, they need to know during a tantrum that our actions bring consequences, such as “you have to play now a less toy” and should not replace the mother. If they deliberately to throw something on the floor, they should pick it up they werden.Bis consequences they will continue brats and big brats are pretty awful to have in your house.

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